The selvage is just the side end of ur fabric. If u r using a pattern, it will be the open side of ur fabric when it is folded in half. The grain, another word for the nap, is the direction the material flows. You may have noticed on velvet or corduroy that it looks one color when u rub it one way & looks darker or lighter when u rub it back the other way. You want to cut ur pattern so that it all goes one way, usually the smooth way running down towards the bottom. Some fabrics also have a design, such as floral, or stripes, that need to be cut in one direction. If u lay the pattern piece for a pocket or collar wrong, u will have a pattern running different from the rest of ur outfit. If u do not have to worry about the design & cannot feel a difference in ur fabric when u rub ur hand up & down it, u probably do not have to worry about it. Most patterns have a ''lay-out' that will show u how to cut out ur pattern, based on the width of ur fabric. If u follow the lay-out & cut ur pieces in the direction it shows, u will be alright.